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i was wondering... if one is say dating a bisexual prson and they say that they have a rule, one guy one girl. then they acually start to date other people. is it ok to be pissed. i happen to not want any one else to have my guy yet nick gets him too. how do i tell him i dont like this.
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well ill give you my advice (but i not bi so i can't be accurate on how he'll feel.) i just have to say, dont depend on my advice, just think about it. ok here goes,

a.I'd try to understand his position (he's attracted to male and females) good now that that's done now you get to the hard part. tal kto him about it, find out how he feels, but don't make him uncomortable, just try to find out, tell him that you want things to work and want to know how he feels. once you know what he feels o nthe topic it'll be easier to fix the situation,
B.but from what i've heard so far, i'd tell him the incredibly disgusting history of homosexuality, (supposed aids starter was bi) etc., and tell him that you (i suppose from what i can tell) like him, and ask him wh yhe feels that he needs a guy and a girl at the same time, and ask him if it'd be so unbearable for him to just try just one for a while (try to offer you) and see how it works, (and when telling him al lthis dont try to make it seem like he's done wrong, just act curious, don't try to put fault on him, it'll just piss him off and make hi mnot listen) your whole goal is to make him doubt homosexuality, but u have to be subtle, you can't be aggresive, you just have to seem concerned. i guess that all i have to say, if i think of anything better ill let you know and anyone else, (especially bi) who wants to dont be afraid to offer suggestions to darkskye i hope your problem gets solved.

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i'm bisexual and i think that's cheating

i don't understand why people think that just because they like both sexes that means that they can date both sexes

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listen. I think that you should drop this guy. I'm bisexual and I've never heard that rule before.
this guy is cheating on you regardless if he tells you he is or not. it's still being unfaithful. not only is this guy a bisexual. he's confussed as all hell! he dosn't know what he wants in life. and that's the sterotypical bisexual. people like him set the stereotype for bisexuals. that pisses me off.
bisexuals date people of the same sex because they find something they really like in that person as well as when they date someone of the opposite sex.
they don't date them at the same time because that's just insane. NO CLUE WHAT THEY WANT. That's not healty. Break up with the fucker.
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I'd guess you better listen to them, after all they are the bi's, i guess disregard my advice. <_<
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Don't be daft Dark...this is a 'love' matter not a 'bi' matter...in love everyone is clueless.

I'm bi and I too have not heard this rule but the reason for this is there are no rules....

If you love him and you are happy to let him satisfy his homosexual side then let him..if it makes you sad you have to tell him...If it works don't try and fix it but if it doesn't you must just be honest to avoid further anguish if that's what you feel.

If I could have a male and female partner and all members of the relationship were happy then I'd love it but if it's too much hard work then it's probably not meant to be.

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Well, I think that if anyone has more than one lover, it counts as cheating. If they're bi or not. I'm bi and I have never had more than one lover at once. So, I guess its not really a rule then. Its just something that he's saying to try to get away with cheating. If the guy can have another lover, so can you.
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Look you should do what you think will be true to yourself. Bi or no Bi. Unless you believe in the saying you can have your cake and eat it too. Always rember what we all say doen't matter your going to be the one to go through this we will always be here for support but your the one whos going to face this head on. There are going to be some settbacks you know what i mean. so be prepared. I see troble in this. Follow your heart. If not and you feel the same way then I say do onto others as you would want them to do to you. Hoping for the best for you be strong, there's always plenty more fishes in the sea...




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