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Are we or not?


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dark_angle

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We sit and talk about school and other things, but not about the things that really bother us…why is that? Do you know why cause I don’t…were best friends yet we have trouble really talking about are problems…why is that? Do you know why I don’t…I don’t see why we have so many problems just talking…I don’t see why we cant tell each other all we know…all I know is that we cant and that not very good because if two best friends cant tell each other things that were not really best friends…or are we? Do you know because I don’t…

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Hmm... Many people, including myself (with a bard's tongue and all, 'tis a shame), can't give their emotions out, can't share their problems with people. I won't share my problems with anyone, because I feel they are my own, and I don't like when others worry about my struggles, they have their own to deal with.
"Best Friends" is a very arbitrary title, I know several people who have several "Best Friends". How can you have more than one "Best Friend" is beyond me, but if it flips your skirt, go for it. Don't put more meaning into the word than you have to.
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Moving from Connections to Advice.

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the answer to such can be simple or complex depending upon how deep you're willing to plunge. Do we have best friends? Is it more than a title? I have a woman that is as close to me as a sister is, and knows the majority of my struggles - but only after they happen. My problems are mine. If you want to know about them, ask, but don't offer advice or aid. If I had wanted aid I would have told everyone to begin with. I don't babble on about my issues because everyone has a story and a problem. They don't need mine on top of them. If you have a best friend, you understand that their problems hurt too, and they don't always need to worry about you on top of it... particularly if you know those who have hard lives. Do you think those that have had family members die sit there and wallow in self-pity together? Do you really think that divorced families advertise their unhappiness? No. Why? Because it's all part of the human struggle, and most people understand the fact that we know better because our human compassion lets us realize we aren't the only ones with problems. Plus that over powering independence that people seem to have doesn't help.

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I do not., or can not, tell my problemsd to other , simply because.... If I did i feal as if they would feal less of me. Ive certainly tryed to tell my problems to my best friend. Se neither seems interusted, nor do they come out sounding right. They always sound silly. So I personaly keep my "wonderland" (excuse the pun suisidal piety) inside myself.
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I am one of those ppl who manages to be a great listener without having to open up myself...usualy if someone has a big 'secret' I know it within twenty seconds of chatting to them...and that is down to my complete acceptance of others but on the flip side...i have difficulty knowing how to open up to others...i know they can trust me and i somehow communicate this but i never feel i can trust anyone else fully...
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do i ever know this situation.
the truth is some friends dont like to open up about their problems. they dont want to seem pessimistic or anything.
honestly those types of people are a drag.
but it could be that your friend just dosnt have any major problems. i'm sure they'll open up when they do.
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